241: 3 Simple Steps To Build Self-Trust with Sally Haldorson [“I Did It” Series]

Introduction 

You're listening to Biceps After Babies Radio episode number 241.

Hello and welcome to Biceps After Babies Radio. A podcast for ladies who know that fitness is about so much more than pounds lost or PRs. It's about feeling confident in your skin and empowered in your life. I'm your host, Amber Brueseke, a registered nurse, personal trainer, wife, and mom of four. Each week, my guests and I will excite and motivate you to take action in your own personal fitness as we talk about nutrition, exercise mindset, personal development, and executing life with conscious intention. If your goal is to look, feel, and be strong and experience transformation from the inside out, you, my friend are in the right place. Thank you for tuning in, now let’s jump into today’s episode.

 

Amber B  0:47

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Amber B  1:48 

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Amber B  3:49

Hey, hey, hey, welcome back to another episode of Biceps After Babies Radio. I'm your host Amber, and this is another special Friday episode of the “I Did It” Series, where we share stories of women who are on their own journeys. And they come on and share the lessons that they've learned, the takeaway they had in hopes that you can find yourself in their journey, feel a little bit more of community, and learn from their experiences. And today's podcast episode is no different. Sally is phenomenal in this episode. And we really dive into some deep stuff and some deep work that she has done on being able to uncover some of this lack of self-trust that she's had, the lack of worthiness that she's had over her 51 years, and how she's been able to kind of turn that around and really reshape her identity moving forward. 

 

Amber B  4:44

In this episode, you'll hear how Sally had had some experiences, both with having a son with disabilities, as well as her own birth defects that really shaped her from a very young age, and some of the stories that she believed about herself. And one of the points that she makes in the episode is that that identity, that those beliefs started at a very, very young age for her, even from birth. And how here she is at 51, five decades later, starting to unravel them and starting to that work and seeing the change that it can create in her life. And one of the things that she said to me before we hit record was that she really wanted people to hear that it's never too late. That this process and this work can happen at any point. And that if you're someone who wants to build more self-trust, you want to build more self-integrity, Sally gives you three really great tips in order to start doing that. So make sure that you listen all the way to the end of the episode, because that's when we talk about those tips. All right, let's jump into the episode with Sally Haldorson. 

 

Amber B  5:46

Welcome, Sally. I'm so glad that you're here to share your story on the podcast. How are you?

 

Sally  5:51  

I'm really well, thank you. 

 

Amber B  5:53  

Awesome. 

 

Sally  5:53  

Excited to be here.

 

Amber B  5:55  

Me too. I was just telling you before we hit record that it's so fun for me to be able like I've seen your name a bunch in the MACROS 101 group and the ladies group, and then to be able to get to know you a little bit, and have you be able to share your story and get to see your face. That's it's always a treat for me as well. So, I'm just glad that you're here. Can you start us off by introducing yourself to everybody who's listening? Tell us a little bit about you and about a little bit about your story.

 

Sally  6:20  

Yeah, I'm Sally Haldorson and I live in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I am 51, which I can't believe, seems completely impossible. I'm sure most of us feel this way. I'm the mom of one special needs kid, who's physically and cognitively disabled. And I'm a wife to a husband who was diagnosed with leukemia at age 47. And now deals with a chronic disability due to that. So, I think that's important to add to share because we all come into this weight loss journey or health journey, with our constraints, with our responsibilities, and with the things that motivate us in trying to find our why and trying to make room for ourselves while we caretaker other people. And however, that looks for everybody, it looks different but that's how it looks for me. And so when it comes to taking care of my own body, being fit enough to meet the challenges of my day-to-day, family life, as I age is a primary motivator. But it also creates constraints on my time and energy, my psychic space, and continuing to do more and more and more in response, my weight and fitness take away from my family and work, and it just doesn't work. And so that's what led me to MACROS 101, and a pursuit of what I would learn that you call the sweet spot of enjoyable and effective and I would add a third “e” word efficient. And that was sort of what I was searching for. And I can talk more about all of the other things that I was searching for. But I was looking for a way to sustain and pursue my goals, while not exhausting myself in light of all the other demands that I have in my life.

 

Amber B  8:19  

And I think most people listening are probably nodding their heads being like, “Yeah, me too. That's what we want.” And you share some of your own constraints and some of the own circumstances that you are coming from. And like you so well pointed out, other people have those same things that may not look the same as you, but they have their own time constraints and family and responsibilities and things like that. And so, I like that idea of efficient, enjoyable, and effective, and putting those things together and being able to find that balance that's going to work for you and your life. You mentioned the identity of the caretaker and you know having a son with special needs and then having a husband as well to having that later in life to also be a caretaker, it sounds like for him as well. How has that identity shaped, how you see the world how you see yourself, and really the experience that you've had throughout your life?

 

Sally  9:16  

I think all of that what I deal with now as an adult is really colored and informed by my childhood, and how I grew up in my relationship with myself. And one of the things that I, again, specifically had some challenges as a kid but I was born with an infection in my left femur. It's called osteomyelitis for people who want to know the actual name. But the end result of that was that if I had not had a number of surgeries that I ended up having as a kid, my left leg would be about five or six inches shorter than my right leg. And so I have an interesting relationship with a disability as it is and having been born with that disability. And so because of the challenges that I had as a young person, I'd like to talk a little bit in a minute about being different, and the way that being different affected the way that I believed in myself, or how I considered myself, but it also then has informed how I deal with that as an adult and having two people that I love having their own constraints and their own challenges and how I can support that, and how I can inform that and how I can not be subsumed by it. And I think that that is the toughest thing for caregivers, whether you're a parent of four, or whether you're taking care of elderly parents, or whether your child needs extra assistance, is the fact that you can lose yourself so easily in what's happening. We hear a lot of you know, on the MACROS 101 chat board, you hear a lot of people saying that life happened, right? Like, “I couldn't do this because life happened or I couldn't do this because this thing happened.” And it is completely understandable. And such a struggle to stay focused on your own health, and make decisions for yourself while trying to support other people. And that sort of the fine line that is I think we are constantly working toward figuring out.

 

Amber B  11:51  

Yeah, I totally agree. Will you share a little bit about how your experience of being born with a birth defect influenced your perception of yourself?

 

Sally  12:05  

I've reflected a lot on that. And primarily, I was not comfortable with being different. And I think some of that came through because I internalized a lot of the language that people and behaviors, that people directed toward me as a child as being integral to myself. So when my doctors used words like discrepancy or deformity, words like that, I internalize that and said, “I am discrepant”, “I am deformed”, and, “I am different.” And I could never shake or separate the need for my body to be fixed. And not conflate that with me needing to be fixed, that there was something inherently wrong with me. Because my body needed to be fixed. And not being able to uncouple those two things, and not having sort of the, I suppose therapy at a young age that would have been helpful at the time. But this was the 70s and 80s, a whole different landscape. But not ever being able to separate those two things created decades of obsessive negative thoughts, lack of self-worth, lack of self-trust, and, you know, I felt loved in my life, I felt liked in my life, but I never felt worthy of that love, or like, because there was something always about me that needed to be fixed.

 

Amber B  13:58  

Yeah, I mean, this is such, such a good topic. Because while you have that experience of being born different and having doctors kind of highlight those differences for you. What you said about learning to uncouple your body from you, right, who Sally is versus your body? You know, that was something that you had to work through. And that is not unique to someone who I think has a disability or is born different. That is a throughline for a lot of women, where they haven't separated their bodies from them. And it's why it becomes such an obsession or a control issue is that they feel like they are reflected in their body, that they're one and the same they are their body. And when you can start to separate those things, that really creates a different perspective. What as you started to do that and I want to dive into like how you did that right because now the next inherent question is How do I separate those two things? But as you started to tease that out, what did that process look like for you?

 

Sally  15:08  

I think one of the things that happened in my life, and this is one of those things that's like, it's a double-edged sword where I felt inherently unworthy. So I worked harder than most people, right, like eyes–

 

Amber B  15:26  

Like, make an eye for it. 

 

Sally  15:27  

Yeah, like, I was always trying to interpret what other people wanted from me, get there before they could ask for it, and achieved the things that I sort of wasn't set up in life to achieve. And I did develop a lot of confidence in my abilities, in my abilities to get work done, work hard, and be the person who's relied upon. And I applied that often, to my body. And so I would, I've lost a good amount of weight three times in my adult life, somewhere between 70 to 85 pounds three times. And I did that by applying that work ethic, right, like I did all the right things, exactly work harder. Because I was going to fix much like I would take on a project at work, or I would write something or whatever, I would do this thing, and commit all of the research and then execute it, and I would succeed. And then I didn't know where to go. And I would gain the weight back, and I would lose the weight. And I would gain the weight back. And of course, I had a lot of stresses in my life that would take me away from that pursuit of applying my work ethic to my body, right, like this is a project that needs to be accomplished. 

 

Sally  16:53  

And so recently, in the last few years, I did lose 85 pounds. Felt like a success, and found a lot of joy in that for all of the reasons we do when we hit our goals, and we get to wear the clothes that we want to wear and we get to feel lighter when we're walking and we get all of those good things. But then I was terrified because I was going to fail again because I didn't know how to work that hard for so long. Like was this just the rest of my life to work this hard?

 

Amber B  17:26  

For you to work that hard for the rest of your life. 

 

Sally  17:27  

Yeah. And it was so intimidating, and so terrifying, to then also know that I had this history of failure, right? Like, I still wasn't good enough, I still wasn't going to be able, like I could work hard and get the project done but I couldn't sustain it. Like I was a failure for not being able to sustain that level of work. Because I'd always been judging myself based on my effort. And I think that, again, having just hit my 50s and having just taken MACROS 101, it took your content and your class and your coaches to even turn on that light for me, that there was a possibility of decoupling myself from my body. Despite my other accomplishments, despite my own confidence in myself, I still had what I would learn, like my first big takeaway from MACROS 101 was this concept of starting with identity, right? Like I've done all these projects as an external effort to lose weight, to do it the way other people told me to do it, whether it was Weight Watchers or vegetarianism, or doing boot camps, or whatever, all the things. And never had that internal voice that said, “It's okay to make this look the way you need it to look to be the person that you want to be.” And that instead of taking that fix from outside, right, like instead of taking that prescription from outside, and that has been really life-changing, perspective-changing, life-changing for me over the past six months. So I think it actually starts now. You know, it starts now for me. I'm still learning this after decades and decades of thinking that I needed to be fixed. That instead I have sort of seen how that has separated me from my life and kept me from living it as fully, as I could have.

 

Amber B  20:05  

And I know that one of the things you said to me ahead of time was that you also wanted people listening to know that it's never too late. And that you have had decades of struggling with that, and feeling unworthy. And sometimes people can feel like, “Well, it's just been this way for so long, how could it be any other way?” And I think you coming on here and sharing that at age 51, you are working on this process, and it's not too late, and you can make a change at any point in your life that you decide to do. One question I had for you, because that fear of failure is a real one, especially when you have evidence to support it. Like, “I've done this before, I've lost the weight, and I've regained it a couple of times”, you have a lot of evidence to support that idea. And so it's totally understandable to be afraid of that happening again. Is that fear still present? Is it diminished? How has that fear changed for you over the last little while?

 

Sally  21:08  

It is, I think the primary thing that I'm focused on working on right now. And when I first joined, MACROS 101, I was working with one of the coaches, shout out to Britani DeFoe. And I wrote out my intentions of having joined MACROS 101, which was initially to lose the 15 pounds I gained back from losing 85. Right, I saw those 15 pounds as a sign that I was on the slippery slope, that I was going to be– 

 

Amber B  21:45  

going backward 

 

Sally  21:47  

And I recognized that I didn't have the tools to be successful at maintenance. And maintenance to me at the time meant losing those 15 pounds and sitting at 150. Like 150 was the non-negotiable because it was an emblem of all of these numbers in my life. And the first thing that she asked me was, like, “What if 165 is fine?”, like, “What if 165 is okay?” And I never comprehended a world or a way of looking at myself, and you know, this body that needed to be fixed as ever being okay. This seems kind of basic, but it was really revolutionary for me that I thought I can decide this, I get to decide if 165 is okay. And so, then starting to work at maintenance, trying to learn this new landscape that I've never had the tools to explore, or didn't know I had levers to pull, which we talk a lot about in MACROS 101. Britani and I sort of came up with this analogy of a light switch dimmer, and it reflects this all-or-nothing thinking where like, when you're in weight loss mode, and you're doing all the right things, your light switches all the way on. And you just can't sustain that, you're gonna burn yourself out. But then you turn it all the way off because you're exhausted from a year and a half of losing weight. And then your lights up, then all have, you know, you're just gaining it back or you're you've given up or you're just think you're gonna fail again. And so, finding that level where you can comfortably see and enjoy where you're at, is still a learning process for me. 

 

Sally  23:53  

But one that I understand the value of, and I think one of the other takeaways from MACROS 101, in addition to identity with which I don't even know if I actually got to that point, though, that this idea of me feeling like I was faking it, right, like, I was doing all the right things externally, but I was faking it on the inside, right? Like, I was an indoor cat who liked to sit and read. I didn't like to be active. I couldn't control myself around food, like that was my true self and I was faking this other self. When in actuality, this identity as a fit person needed to become my true self. Or I needed to believe that that was who I am. And that was a really important moment in starting to trust myself. 

 

Sally  25:03 

So one of the sparks that convinced me to sign up for MACROS 101 was one of the coaching calls that you featured as a podcast. And you were talking to someone about self-integrity. And I watched it, listen to it, I think it was actually a video. And I watched that a couple of times, And I thought that is the crux of the problem. That's the thing that needs healing for me, right? Like, I don't trust myself to give myself the right advice. I don't trust myself to determine what my weight will be, what my level of activity will be, when I feel strong enough, like I don't even hear if I have a voice, I don't even hear it because it has been so obscured by all of the obsessive negative thinking. And so, this feeling that this empowerment that I get to decide was also completely like having the blinders taken off. And you can apply that in so many ways but one of the really concrete ways is this reframing of your food choices. And I think there's a podcast that you do about your own eating habits, that really, I've listened to that one a couple of times, too. Because there you talk a lot about making choices for yourself. And that being one of those things that I didn't know, was a possibility for me. And so when I realized that I could say no to eating something, not because someone was telling me I needed to restrict it. But because I had goals, or because I did not need it, or because I didn't want it. I had never actually identified what I wanted. And that seemed incredible to me that I could have a voice in all of this.

 

Amber B  27:27  

Yeah. That's huge. And that self-trust piece, as you were talking, I was reflecting on what you were talking about with self-trust. And you made a link for me that I don't think I had quite flushed out in my mind. Because I talked about how a lot of women go outside of themselves to find answers that they go to Weightwatchers. And they go to like all these different diets because that they're going to tell them what to do. And I think one of the reasons we do that is because, on some level, a lot of us lack that self-trust that how could we ever have the answers? How could we ever know what to do? How can we ever trust ourselves to make those decisions, so we're going to put that off and let somebody else do it for us? And I never had made that connection between that symptom that I see a lot of women doing going outside themselves and realizing that at the fundamental level, a lot of times, I think that is because it's a lack of trust in yourself. And so when we can start to build that trust in ourselves and give you that power, if you take it back, and instead of somebody else having to tell you what to do, you can take it back and make your own decisions from a place of empowerment and a place of, “Oh, I can trust myself and I can start to develop that.” Do you feel like your self-trust has been built over time? And what has been the way that you've been able to build that self-trust, because I think a lot of people will have the question of like, “I don't trust myself”, “I don't have self-integrity”, “I want to get to that place, but I'm not sure how to do it.”

 

Sally  28:50  

I think that first, the true value of self-trust in hearing your inner voice or making these decisions for yourself is, I think, the only sustainable way to be the person you want to be, right? You cannot sustain living within someone else's rules or restrictions if you aren't. Because as we know from our lives, things happen. And struggles come and sometimes you are just left with yourself. And if you don't trust yourself, then that's when you're left without a framework. And so what I'm working on right now is this idea that I don't need to fix myself but what I'm trying to do is strengthen my foundation. Right, like so that's sort of what I'm working on right now in terms of self-trust. And through working in Beyond MACROS 101, and actually trying to pull some levers, make some changes, be neutral about my data, be neutral about my body, and be neutral about my successes or failures is that I don't need to go to extremes. I don't need to overwork myself. I don't need to look for an answer elsewhere, and instead, it's literally a practice that I am doing almost on a daily basis. When it occurs to me to say, “Boy, I wonder if it would be okay if I added another 100 calories”, or, “I wonder if it would be okay if I cut back 100 calories.” I'm not in an official cut so maybe I shouldn't do that. And using all of these words externalize the experience, right? Like someone will tell me whether this is right or wrong because I've been wrong so much. And instead say, “How do I feel about cutting back 100 calories?” And not thinking, “Well, someone else is down at like 1600 calories, I should cut 500 and make myself miserable.” No, that's not how I want to live my life. I want energy for my family, I want energy for my activities. I need to feed myself to do that. And so I get to decide. And I have to articulate this to myself almost on a daily basis, whether I'm making decisions about food, like, “Oh, there are Oreos in the pantry. Do I want them? Not should I not eat them? Are they wrong to eat? But do I want them? Am I done eating with them?” And I'm probably just, you know, I could go on and on, you know, sort of banging the drum of in this case. As the owner of my body, I both get to decide and I'm responsible for deciding.

 

Amber B  32:17  

So good. So I heard three specific things. I heard that you implemented curiosity, I heard that you asked better questions, and I heard that you practiced. And if you are wanting to develop more self-integrity or more self-trust, the example that you that Sally just gave you, of changing the question from an external question to an internal question was so powerful. So she said, instead of saying, “Should I eat them?”, which is an external question, it's like an external inch, the should is from an external source. The question became, “Do I want them?” And so we move from an external question to an internal question. And the more that you practice that, the more you can develop the self-trust and the self-integrity. It's simply like a child developing trust with an adult, how do you develop trust with anybody really any relationship, it's a little bit at a time, it's like they did what they said they were going to do. So you trust them a little bit more next time. And then they do again, what they said they were going to do, and you trust them a little bit more. That's literally the process that you build that self-trust with yourself, and asking yourself those questions of, then do I want that making the decision from that place that puts a little penny in like the deposit box of like, self-trust to like build up that self-trust over time. So curiosity, asking better questions, and practice are such good, tangible ways to start to build that. 

 

Sally  33:49  

Absolutely. 

 

Amber B  33:50  

So good. Oh, my gosh, Sally, you like pulled out a whole bunch of like, you made me think a lot. I know that people listening will feel the same way. But we've gotten deep with some of the things that you've been able to pull out and elicit and, yeah, it's just been an amazing episode. We could go a whole bunch of different places, but I kind of want you to maybe sum it up with if you're sitting next to somebody who is struggling right now. They're struggling with seeing their self-worth, they're struggling with judging themselves, they're struggling with fearing failure, and maybe having that experience of having a lot of failure in their past and worried about that in the future. What type of advice could you give that woman?

 

Sally  34:39  

There is so much to say. I think one thing would be, we hear this a lot, you can't hate your body into fitness or you can't hate your body into fitness or whatever. But I think the better takeaway there is that spending your time and energy thinking that you would be better if you were perfect, different, or ideal is literally seeing your life go by without living it. It's spending it in a negative space, where you're almost setting yourself at it, you know, if your water line is at zero neutral, and you're living your life in the negatives, below that water line all the time thinking, “I'm gonna go try to get this job, once I lose weight”, “I'm going to go on these dates, once I lose weight”, “I'm going to be happy with myself when I wake up in the morning and I pick out something to wear to work when I lose weight”, you are living below your capabilities. And if you can start to flip that and say, and I'm not saying like that's easy, or even that it works to just wake up every day and say, “No, I'm completely happy with where I'm at and I don't recognize that I have, you know, disordered eating or that I'm dependent on food or that I'm not pursuing some health goals that will help me live my life better.” It's not that it's just more of living in a space that is proactive and positive. Because then you're actually living your life, you're actually taking a step forward, you're above that waterline of negativity. I don't have any idea if that made sense.

 

Amber B  36:56  

Oh, man, Sally, it's so good. This is such good stuff. Thank you so much for being willing to share your story, and for sharing all of this insight. I feel like I made some connections during this podcast episode that I hadn't made before. So thank you so much for prompting that. And this conversation about self-trust. And self-integrity is such an important one that I know that so many women are going to learn from and be able to start to implement. So thank you so much for being here.

 

Sally  37:26  

I think the thing that I'm most excited about right now, that I feel like I was gifted through MACROS 101 and doing the mindset work, is the fact that I'm really excited and hopeful. And I think there are so many of us when we are in that space of negativity, when we feel like we're at a loss, when we feel like we've slipped when we're not enough. We don't feel like there's any hope. Because it's just going to be hard work. It's just going to be exhausting. It's going to be torture, it's going to be not enough. And I feel hopeful, I feel excited, and I see a future for myself where I can have some freedom, some energy, and some enjoyment in everything that I've accomplished. And so, I think that is something that I think everybody is searching for and I really believe it's possible.

 

Amber B  38:36  

It's possible. What a great note to end on. Thanks so much, Sally.

 

Sally  38:40  

You're welcome. Thanks so much for all you do.

 

Amber B  38:44  

Wasn't that so good? Oh, man, the question that she stated,  “What if 165 pounds is okay?” That's such a powerful question. And like I said in the episode, I really feel like I connected a lot of dots that I hadn't connected before in terms of self-trust, and how that manifests for some of us of always going outside of ourselves to find answers. And one of the things that I teach inside of MACROS 101 is really how to go inside for answers, how to ask yourself better questions, and how to build that self-trust so that at the end of the day, you can take control of your journey. And when you get into that position, it is incredibly empowering. It's like the whole world opens up to you because now you are in charge of what happens, you are in charge of your life. And that's a powerful, powerful place to work from. 

 

Amber B  39:34  

If you want to dive more into the work that we talked about here, if you want to dive more into developing that self-trust, understanding yourself a little bit better, being able to work through that fear of failure of what happens if I try this again, and it doesn't work. Those are things that we have to be able to work through if you want to reach whatever physical goals that you've set for yourself. And we're going to do some of that together in my free five-day challenge. So if you have not yet registered and you want to have a breakthrough like Sally has had, I invite you to come to our free five-day challenge and get started on that work and see how where it can take you, see what can transpire in your fitness journey. You can register at bicepsafterbabies.com/challenge, it's free. And it's a week that you get to come to hang out with me we get to start doing some of this work. I take a lot of the things that I teach and some of the exercises that we do in MACROS 101, and I present them in a free setting. So if you've been thinking about joining MACROS 101, I highly recommend coming and doing the five-day challenge. It will give you a little sneak peek, a little taste of what that experience is like so that you can make the decision that's right for you. That wraps up this episode of Biceps After Babies Radio. I'm Amber, now go out and be strong because remember my friend, you can do anything. 

 

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